Section: children, relationships
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I can only imagine how heartbroken this poor woman is over the loss of her adopted son. These 'kids' apparently can't make up their minds on what they want to do. I agree, she should give up the baby as it will only cause him harm. I also would cut ties with them immediately after she must give up the baby. It would be better for all concerned to go through a legal adoption with a lawyer and hopefully she will also get help to overcome this horrible experience. I wonder how long it will be before these two new parents will again want to live their lives without trying to bring up this baby. They seem very flaky and insecure. Not a good way to bring up a child.
Deming NM's Comment
The 20-year-old guy probably did the first thing he felt like doing (run!) and then reconsidered later. I hope that's all it was, but you never know if a relationship will work out. I hope the kid will be OK. No matter what, someone's gonna hurt.
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I agree with the reader comment to give up the baby and cut all ties with the birth parents. They are idiots and insecure and that poor baby will be the brunt of their idiotic actions to demand the baby back again. They have hurt the adoptive parents terribly and should be cut out of their lives forever. It may come back up again that they want to release the baby but the former adoptive parents must stay firm on keeping away from them. Let her mother take over where they can't handle attempting to raise this child since she's the one who considers it just a "misunderstanding". She's the one who is misunderstanding the entire situation. Cut her off as well!
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Ann, your advice to check with a lawyer is useless. I totally agree with the reader comments here to release the baby to avoid confusion to him later in life. Of course, these flakes seem unstable and hopefully the girl's mother will step in and end up and help raise the baby once these air-heads again realize they made a mistake. The former adoptive parents should completely distance themselves from these idiots (all of them) and never get involved with them again. I wish them luck legally adopting a baby from outside the 'family'.
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