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Dear Ann Landers,
My ex-husband and I divorced 18 years ago. He told me he no longer loved me and that family life was not for him. He agreed to counseling, but of course, it was a waste of time. The counselor later told me it was obvious that I wanted counseling to save the marriage, but my ex agreed to it only to appease me and intended on getting a divorce once the charade was over. We had been married 14 years and had two children, ages 7 and 5. It was not easy for me. My ex remarried six months after the divorce was final. I married again 10 years later. My 23-year-old daughter recently asked her father why we were divorced. He replied, "Because your mother was having an affair." I am furious with him for telling such a lie. Fortunately, my daughter did not believe him, but it's possible he has repeated that same lie to everyone he knows. I get angry every time I think about it, but don't know if I should confront him. Please, Ann, tell me what to do. -- Innocent in Stamford, Conn.

Dear Stamford,
Don't waste your time and energy on a confrontation. It has been said that a lie can travel halfway around the world before the truth can put on its shoes. You now know that your ex is a cad and a liar. What more is there to learn? A confrontation would probably result in a denial, plus more "he said, she said. " Who needs it? Congratulate yourself for unloading the bum, and enjoy your freedom.



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My life was destroyed when my husband sent me packing, after 13 years we have been together. I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to get my husband back to me. One day at work, I was distracted, not knowing what to do, so my boss called me, so he sat and asked me what it was all about, I told him and he smiled and said it was no problem. I never understood what he meant by it was no problem getting back my husband, he said he used the help of Erica to get back his wife when she left him for another man, and now they are together till date, initially, I was shocked hearing something like this from my boss. He gave me an email address (erika_raven_temple AT religious. com) of Erica temple which helped him get his wife back, I never believed that this would work, but I had no choice coming into contact with the sayings that I get done, and she asked for my information and that my husband was able to propose to throw her the spell and I sent her the details, but after two days, my mother called me that my husband was pleading that he wants me back, I never believed, because it was just a dream and I had to rush off to my mother's place  and to my greatest surprise, was kneeling my husband beg me  for forgiveness that he wants me and the child back home, when  I gave Erica a conversation regarding sudden change of my husband and she made clear to me that my husband will  love me until the end of the world, that he will never leave for another woman. Now I and my husband is back together and started doing funny things he has not done before, he makes me happy and does what it is supposed to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need the help of any kind need, please contact Erica temple for help. Her email is emagicp101 AT gmail . com or her website is ericaraven. webs . com

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Sherry Rays's Comment
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Sherry Rays's Comment
EFFECTIVE AND POWERFUL LOVE SPELL CASTER AND LOTTERY SPELL [email protected] COM OR WHATSAPP HIM : 2348144172934   My ex-boyfriend dumped me one week ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the Internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Ojoka. You are truly talented and gifted. Email; [email protected] or Whats App 2348144172934 is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man

Success John's Comment
I never believe that my husband and his family will accept me and my two kids... my name is mrs. John success,I am from Kenyan but I based in Canada, I am here to thank Dr. Collins ebosetale the spell caster, for casting a love spell on my husband and his family, I got married April 14 2010 and since the day I got married I never have peace in my house, my husband and his family hate me and my kids and I was so frustrated and confused until a friend of mine from south Africa but she also live in Canada, I explained my situation to her and she was touch, so she directed me to doctor Collins ebosetale and I contacted him immediately and he told me what to do and I did it immediately and he told me to free my mind and leave everything for him, and between 7hours I will see a good news, really I was waiting for him and immediately my husband called me, it was just like a joke and between 48hours my husband came and took me and my kids to his house he and beg for forgiveness, and till now, we no longer fight, we are living peacefully.. Thanks Doctor... for those of you that are having problem with your love ones quickly contact Dr. Collins ebosetale on his Email : [email protected] or write him on whatsApp 2348119024210 for instant spell..........

Uyioghosa Sam-omozusi's Comment
I will forever be indebted to the great Doctor Tebe for fixing my broken marriage after my husband left me for his mistress for 6 months. I never believed in spells until my friend introduced me to him. At first, I was skeptical about him because I heard a lots about false spell casters but I put my doubts behind me for i was desperate to get my husband back and I did according to what he instructed me to do. Now my husband is back just within 48 hours of contacting him. I'm living happily with my husband again after 6 months of divorce and I will not rest till he's known all over the world. He's also specialize in money spells, lottery spells, sickness spells E.T.C. Get connected with Doctor Tebe now, his email is [email protected] com or WhatsApp on 2348140544262 Or His Website: https://drtebespiritualtemple.000webhostapp.com

Uyioghosa Sam-omozusi's Comment
I will forever be indebted to the great Doctor Tebe for fixing my broken marriage after my husband left me for his mistress for 6 months. I never believed in spells until my friend introduced me to him. At first, I was skeptical about him because I heard a lots about false spell casters but I put my doubts behind me for i was desperate to get my husband back and I did according to what he instructed me to do. Now my husband is back just within 48 hours of contacting him. I'm living happily with my husband again after 6 months of divorce and I will not rest till he's known all over the world. He's also specialize in money spells, lottery spells, sickness spells E.T.C. Get connected with Doctor Tebe now, his email is [email protected] com or WhatsApp on 2348140544262 Or His Website: https://drtebespiritualtemple.000webhostapp.com

Jennifer Jen's Comment
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Jennifer Jen's Comment
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Kingsly Francis's Comment
I never believe that my husband and his family will accept me and my two kids... my name is mrs. John success,I am from Kenyan but I based in Canada, I am here to thank Dr. Collins ebosetale the spell caster, for casting a love spell on my husband and his family, I got married April 14 2010 and since the day I got married I never have peace in my house, my husband and his family hate me and my kids and I was so frustrated and confused until a friend of mine from south Africa but she also live in Canada, I explained my situation to her and she was touch, so she directed me to doctor Collins ebosetale and I contacted him immediately and he told me what to do and I did it immediately and he told me to free my mind and leave everything for him, and between 7hours I will see a good news, really I was waiting for him and immediately my husband called me, it was just like a joke and between 48hours my husband came and took me and my kids to his house he and beg for forgiveness, and till now, we no longer fight, we are living peacefully.. Thanks Doctor... for those of you that are having problem with your love ones quickly contact Dr. Collins ebosetale on his Email : doctorcollinsebos[email protected] or write him on whatsApp 2348119024210 for instant spell..........

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Adams Vera's Comment
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Greg Thomson's Comment
I will forever be indebted to the great Doctor Tebe for fixing my broken marriage after my husband left me for his mistress for 6 months. I never believed in spells until my friend introduced me to him. At first, I was skeptical about him because I heard a lots about false spell casters but I put my doubts behind me for i was desperate to get my husband back and I did according to what he instructed me to do. Now my husband is back just within 48 hours of contacting him. I'm living happily with my husband again after 6 months of divorce and I will not rest till he's known all over the world. He's also specialize in money spells, lottery spells, sickness spells E.T.C. Get connected with Doctor Tebe now, his email is [email protected] com or WhatsApp on 2348140544262 Or His Website: https://drtebespiritualtemple.000webhostapp.com

Greg Thomson's Comment
I will forever be indebted to the great Doctor Tebe for fixing my broken marriage after my husband left me for his mistress for 6 months. I never believed in spells until my friend introduced me to him. At first, I was skeptical about him because I heard a lots about false spell casters but I put my doubts behind me for i was desperate to get my husband back and I did according to what he instructed me to do. Now my husband is back just within 48 hours of contacting him. I'm living happily with my husband again after 6 months of divorce and I will not rest till he's known all over the world. He's also specialize in money spells, lottery spells, sickness spells E.T.C. Get connected with Doctor Tebe now, his email is [email protected] com or WhatsApp on 2348140544262 Or His Website: https://drtebespiritualtemple.000webhostapp.com

Carla Houston's Comment
I'm so excited my broken Marriage has been restored my ex husband is back after he left me and our 2kids for another woman. i was so happy to met Dr. OKu how he help many people to bring there Lover back so i contact him to help me too. that was how Dr. Oku help me to bring my husband back.. A big thank to you Dr. Oku because I never thought my ex Husband will be back to me so quickly with your spell. You are the best and world greatest. if you are here and you need your Ex Lover back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: [email protected] You can also Call/WhatsApp: 2347053113465

Cyril Vivian's Comment
Please visit (http://dradodalovetemple.com) (https://dradodalovetemple.blogspot.com) i am here to give testimony on how this powerful spell caster called Dr Adoda helped me to fix my relationship. i was heartbroken when my fiancee told me he is no longer interested in marrying me because he was having an affair with the other woman where he work. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help, that was when i read a review about the great work of Dr Adoda, then i contacted him for help to get my lover back, he helped me cast a powerful (reconciliation love spell) and to my greatest surprise after 48 hours of doing the love spell my Fiancee came back on his knees begging me to forgive him We are now happily married and all thanks goes to Dr Adoda Wonders for helping me save my relationship you can contact Dr Adoda through his email address: [email protected] or WHATSAPP him on 2348112825421.

Tracy Mattingly from united state's Comment
Get your ex lover back" dr unity is indeed a real and honest love spell caster'he brought my husband back. I'm Tracy Mattingly from united state, I'm so excited my husband is back after he left me for another woman. My husband was having an affair with a co-worker and i love my husband so much but he was cheating on me with his co-worker and this girl i think use witchcraft or black magic on my husband to make him hate me and this was so critical and uncalled-for, I cry all day and night for God to send me a helper to bring back my husband! I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex-boyfriend back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it, then he did a love spell for me. 11hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much, Oh My God! i was so happy, and today i am happy with my man again and we are joyfully living together and i thank the powerful spell caster Dr.Unity, he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the here. if you are here and your Lover is turning you down, or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact Dr.Unity for help now..Here’s his contact Email him at: [email protected] com or Call/Whats-app: 2348055361568 .
 
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