Dear Ann Landers, I have a relative who has diabetes and must take insulin shots after every meal. He makes quite a production of it, testing his blood sugar level, preparing the injection and injecting himself at the table. This procedure is done in the homes of family members and friends and in restaurants. I can handle it, but several others cannot. The sight of blood and injections ruins the enjoyment of the meals for those with queasy stomachs.
This person is extremely sensitive, and his feelings would be crushed if he knew he was offending people. Your response in the paper would help make others who are afflicted with diabetes aware of how this sort of thing affects some of us. No name or city, please. -- Mrs. Anonymous
Dear Mrs. Anon., Your point is well taken. A person who would inject himself at the dinner table in the presence of others exhibits gross insensitivity and very poor manners.
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Take him aside and tell him gently that it would be better if he handled his medical needs somewhere other than the dining table.
I think this guy has more than Diabetes, he also has a look at me problem. Does anyone give him attention or what. This is the worse thing I have ever heard. It is bad enough I have to get this done every six months by my doctor. He needs a friend like me. I would call him and tell him this is not ever acceptable. If he is upset. So be it.
I agree with both reader comments. If this person is so sensitive, then he should be aware that others are also sensitive of seeing him inject himself at the table. He needs to be taken aside and told that this should be done in private, not made a spectacle of it which is what he is doing. Yes, we see you are diabetic and need insulin, but you don't need to take in in front of everyone! (the man is a jerk, plain and simple).
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