AnnLanders.com, Advice by Ann Landers - []
Our Featured Column from the Archives: [Read More Featured Columns]
[Previous] [Next]
Section:
 
 

Dear Ann Landers,
fter I spent several hundred dollars to come to this world-famous medical center in Minnesota, the doctors had the nerve to tell me I am not sick. The final consultation took one hour. My X rays and previous history going back ten years were hauled out. The doctor ended the consultation by saying, "You are in good physical condition for a woman your age. Go home and find something to keep yourself busy." What he meant was, "You are healthy as a horse but you are nuts." When doctors can't get to the root of the trouble, why do they tell the patient his troubles are imaginary?-III But Undiagnosed

Dear III,
Lady, I feel sorry for you. You will now go from doctor to doctor, shopping around until somebody sells you an operation. But that won't be the end of it. You will then complain about your adhesions. Your pain is not imaginary. It is real but it is probably caused by anxiety, tension, and unre-solved problems. This is what your doctor tried to tell you. Only if you get your emotional machinery in good running condition will you feel better.



Share this Column with Friends




What do you think?
Comments:

A Note from Margo:
Hi! It's Margo here. I'd love to know what you think of the letters -- and the answers!

Also, any additional thoughts you might have. Thanks!
 
Please share your comments below:








Our Reader to Reader Question of the Week:


Dear Readers,
, whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.

Tell us what you think?

Popular Columns

Tag Cloud


Ask a Question
or
Post a Comment

"If you marry a man who cheats on his wife, you'll be married to a man who cheats on his wife."
-Ann Landers