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Dear Ann Landers,
I could not resist the opportunity to tell "Freaking Out in California" how right she is. Cellphone users have become downright rude. My husband, along with others throughout the country, happens to own a scanner that can pick up cellphone conversations. It truly amazes me that these yakkers are so free with their talk. It's like the old days when we had party lines and all the neighbors could listen in on your telephone calls. Anyone with a scanner can pick up these conversations. Much of what I hear is unfit for human ears. Warn your readers to please watch their language, Ann. -- Iowa Reader

Dear Iowa,
You told 'em, and I hope they listen. I have had many letters from readers who pointed this out, and I hope you cellphoniacs who read this will be aware that your conversations are NOT private. You should speak as if your minister were listening, because he just might be.



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A Note from Margo:
Hi! It's Margo here. I'd love to know what you think of the letters -- and the answers!

Also, any additional thoughts you might have. Thanks!

Maryann's Comment
Yes, cell phone users need to be more cautious. Shame on the people listening in.

Reader Comment
Why anyone would be so rude as to think listening in on other folks is ok...is beyond me.

melonie's Comment
What kind of creep listens in on other peoples cell phone calls with a scanner? That is akin to putting cameras in the bathroom. There is something very wrong with that couple.

Reader Comment
How about Iowa mind her business and anyone can talk the way they want. Just worry about what goes on in your own house. Maybe you should wonder why your husband feels the need to be listening to other peoples conversation and not talk to her.

Lisa's Comment
It's weird to walk down the grocery aisle and hear people gabbing away into their ear buds. Sounds like they are talking to themselves, and do they really want other shoppers to know about their personal lives? And if you are in the library and must talk on your phone, please go outside to do so!

Reader Comment
There are basic human liberties we have to respect. Violating personal space is not acceptable. Everyone has to have an outlet, and over the phone is within their human rights. Regardless of how they choose to conduct themselves.

Reader Comment
There are basic human liberties we have to respect. Violating personal space is not acceptable. Everyone has to have an outlet, and over the phone is within their human rights. Regardless of how they choose to conduct themselves.

Elli's Comment
There are basic human liberties we have to respect. Violating personal space is not acceptable. Everyone has to have an outlet, and over the phone is within their human rights. Regardless of how they choose to conduct themselves.
 
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