Dear Ann Landers, "You humihated me before your guests. I will never forgive you." I am heartsick. Shall I call Polly and try to patch things up? My husband says if he never sees her again it will be too soon.-Chagrined
Dear Chag, Polly's note was an attempt to put you on the defensive. Don't fall for it. Make no effort to patch things up. If she apologizes, accept it graciously.
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Dear Readers, , whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.
