Dear Ann Landers, ifteen years ago I lost my purse which had twenty dollars in it. My husband told me I was too dumb to handle money, and he hasn't given me a nickel since. I've never seen Walter's paycheck and have no idea what he earns. He keeps his bankbook in code. We have four children. They get a weekly allowance but I don't get one. Whenever I want a dollar I have to beg for it. Walter says he earns the money and is therefore entitled to dole it out as he sees fit. Is this right?- On Charity
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Dear Readers, , whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.
