Section: relationships, money, dating, behavior, marriage
Dear Ann Landers,
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I think "Jennifer Sanchez should post her "Dr. Odunga" praises on some other format, Like Facebook where her type of hype and garbage belongs. Facebook is a dumping ground for crap like her "testimony"
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Once burned, twice cautious. "Confused in L.A.: keep the arrangement light and non-committal. You don't need to go through that BS again with another 'leaner'
And for Jennifer Sanchez's comments for her phony "Dr. Odunga" get off this website for you senseless comments-stick to your Facebook garbage!
Ann's Comment
I was married for 34 years and I was supporting the entire household for over 10 as my ex didn't want to work. After the divorce that cost me 70k to get rid of him, I vowed I would never support another man. It was rule 1 that the man I dated needed to be financially responsible and independent. He didnt have to make or have more than I , but he had to be able to pay his life bills. Is there a reason he makes a lesser salary? Is there chance for advancement and does he want it? Does he find his job rewarding so he is willing to have less? Does he have a great benefit package that evens it out? You need to find out these answers. Don't force him to get a higher paying job, he may not keep it. If you talk about a future, is he discussing financial plans?
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