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Dear Ann Landers,
at is killing our marriage. When D. and I walked down the aisle, he was only a few pounds overweight. I pledged to quit smoking if he would promise to slim down. I have not touched a cigarette since our wedding day. D. has gained 50 pounds. He is a great guy. We enjoy each other, our children and our lives. But those mounds of fat are coming between us. He doesn't understand why our sex life isn't what it used to be. I try, but I'm turned off by those rolls of fat around his middle. Even his kisses leave me cold because his jowls are flabby. I decided a long time ago not to nag since I don't want to hurt him. I fix proper meals and keep no fattening snacks around the house, but I can't padlock his mouth when he walks out the door. Please help me, Ann. -Lovely Man but Too Much of Him

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, the kids, the ex-in-laws, old friends, and so on.” You gotta be crazy. I married a divorced man and there’s nothing in my marriage contract that says I have to be bothered with any of the aforementioned kooks. My husband’s ex-wife is a religious fanatic who reads the Bible with one hand and drinks 175 gin with the other. Her children are going to be just like her. American courts seem to have the insane idea that children are better off with their mother, even if she is a nut, so I say let her paddle her own canoe. And why don’t you talk about something else for a change?-Outspoken

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