Dear Ann Landers, "That's ridiculous. A wife does not have the right to say no unless she has a good reason, and not feeling like it isn't good enough." He wants me to go for counseling so someone can "help me under- • stand." He says that if I go twice, he will go with me the third time. Ann, is it wrong for me to want control over my body and refuse to use it as a bargaining chip to keep a man I'm not sure I want? Am I being unreasonable when I refuse to have sex with him just because he's my husband? Please comment.
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Dear Readers, , maybe both. On the way back to school, Jason kept black-ing out. Finally, he fell and never got up. By the time we were able to get him to the hospital, it was too late. I’m writing this letter to warn everyone who reads your column that sniffing anything from an aerosol can, correction fluid or any kind of solvent can produce brain damage or death. If Jason had known how dangerous sniffing is, he never would have done it. I just hope that all his schoolmates who attended the funeral learned a lesson. As that dear, sweet boy lay in the satin-lined casket, he looked so innocent. I know he had no idea of what he was messing around with. It seems such a shame that a young person should have to die to make people realize how dangerous drugs can be. Please print this let-ter as a warning to others. -We’ll Miss Him, Cleveland
