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A Note from Margo:
Hi! It's Margo here. I'd love to know what you think of the letters -- and the answers!

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Concerned Friend's Comment
My friend was married to a man for 10 years then they were divorced. Both are in their 60's. My friend still acts like his children (from previous marriage) are 'her' children and their children are 'her' grandchildren. The exhusband has remarried; it was not an amiable divorce. Should I just ignore when she talks about 'her' children and 'her' grandchildren. She has biological children but no grandchildren.

Deming NM's Comment
Her family is not yours, and they can call each other what they want.
 
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, whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.

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