Dear Ann Landers, had to smile when I read the letter from the secretary whose boss couldn't keep his hands to him-self. She said his "fatherly" pats had become bold pinches and squeezes, and she wanted your advice on how to keep him in line without jeopardizing her job. It so happens that I am a boss, and my problem is a secretary who won't keep her hands off me. I am fifty-nine and no handsome lover-type. My secre-tary is twenty-nine and extremely attractive. She is also very competent and knows this office from top to bottom. If I fired her, it would take months to train a new girl. This pawing has been going on for nine years. Please tell me what to do. I am in urgent need of an answer.-Also Upacrick
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Dear Readers, , people have asked me if I’m of mixed race. WAKE UP AND SMELL THE CUFEEE! I 4 7 At the age of 35, I’m ready to find the answer to that question. My parents separated immediately after I was born. My father in-sists that when he was away on a Navy assignment, my mother had an affair. I am deeply hurt that he does not believe I am his biological daughter. I approached my mother about this several months ago because I have many physical characteristics that are clearly biracial. She became very angry and cursed me for raising such an “insulting” question. Since that time, our relationship has been very tense. I’m afraid if I bring up the subject again, she may stop talking to me permanently. I want to end this estrangement, Ann, but I also want to know the truth. Am I blowing this out of proportion? What can I do? -No Name, No City
