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Dear Ann Landers,
ou have printed many letters on adoption in your column. I have read letters from adoptive parents, adopted chil-dren, unwed mothers who gave up their babies and even unwed fa-thers. But you have never printed a letter from a white couple who has adopted a child from a minority race. My husband and I plan to adopt a biracial child, and we are running into unbelievable opposition. Both his parents and mine are against it. Many of our friends say we are crazy and that we are looking for trou-ble. Frankly, we have given up trying to explain. They refuse to listen. Please tell me, Ann, are we foolish to want to give our love to an in-nocent child who starts out in life with two strikes against him? These little ones of mixed parentage are not wanted by most people. They are, in a very real sense, handicapped. We want the challenge. We feel we are equal to it. Will you give us a word of encouragement, please?

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, but I wonder if you realize the harm you do when you print letters that give people crazy ideas. For example: that letter from the man whose sweetheart asked him to wear a motorcycle helmet to bed to “heighten the excitement.” My husband saw that letter and decided it would be a great turn-on if I put on my ice skates before retiring last night. (I was a professional skater 20 years ago when we met.) I told him he was out of his mind, but he kept nagging and begging until finally I gave in. Not only did my skates rip the bed sheet and the mattress, Ann, but I gave my hus-band a nine-inch gash on his leg. I had to drive him to the emergency room for stitches at 11:30 at night. We were ashamed to tell the doc-tor how it happened. AO LANIIEHS So please be aware when you print some of those letters that there are an awful lot of nuts out there. Sorry to admit that my husband was one of them. -Past Revisited in Palm Springs

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