Dear Ann Landers,
am a 70-year-old woman and have two male friends, one in Colorado, age 72, another in Oregon, age 69.1 lament the fact that both men, though attractive, interesting and successful, are impotent. Unfortunately, they become defensive instead of ac-knowledging it and seeking help. These men had long, happy marriages, as I did. I would love to find a man who could be a husband to me physically as well as emotionally, and I wonder if anything can be done about these two. Thanks, Ann. I will always be your number one fan. -Languishing in Virginia

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