Dear Ann Landers,
had to write when I read about the woman whose lunatic husband wants to give his 4-year-old daughter up for adop-tion because she is hyperactive. I am the mother of a 5-year-old hy-peractive child. He used to bite, punch, kick, spit, have violent temper tan-trums, and couldn't play with other children. We took the boy to several doctors before one suggested our state university medical center for evalua-tion. He was placed in a daily thera-peutic program and the results have been fantastic. He is a different child. I am grateful for all the help our son received there but I feel that most of the change was accomplished by love. GRATEFUL FOR HELP IN CONNECTICUT

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