Dear Ann Landers,
y husband is 6'3", and he says he weighs 265 pounds, but I don't believe it. He refuses to get on 45 a scale in my presence. I had him on a special diet but gave up when I discovered the diet meal was just a snack, and he was eating everything in sight when my back was turned. The children hide their candy from him, but he finds it. When I bake for my club he sneaks into the freezer and eats the desserts. I think he has high blood pressure, but he won't go to a doctor. You told the other wife that some things are worth nagging about and a husband's health is one of them. Does this go for me, too?-Open For Suggestions

Dear Open,
Yes, but change your tune. Tomorrow tell him you are making an appointment with a doctor. Ask which day and what time would be best. If he fails to cooperate, ask if his affairs are in order because he will probably not be around to see his children through college. And neither will the husbands of the women who wrote the next two letters.