Dear Ann Landers, haven't spoken to my brother's wife in seven years. It would take the whole news-paper to tell you the entire story, so I'll just say she did me unbelievable dirt and I have never been able to forgive her. My daughter is getting married in a few months and I want the wedding to be a happy occasion. I know my mother will be sad if my brother and his wife are not present. (He refuses to come without her even though he knows she was in the wrong and has told me so.) My other two sisters say she (the one who did me the dirt) should apol-ogize and then I should invite her. But the girl is as stubborn as a Missouri mule. I'm sure she'd die first. What should I do? OPEN FOR SUGGES-TIONS
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Dear Readers, , whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.
"At every party there are two kinds of people - those who want to go home and those who don't. The trouble is, they are usually married to each other."
