Dear Ann Landers, 'm in love with a married man. Our affair started innocently. I didn't mean for it to happen and neither did George. He married a woman he didn't love because she became pregnant (on pur-pose to trap him, probably). They have been living like brother and sister since a year ago February. George made up his mind to get a divorce be-fore he ever met me. I am eager to marry this beautiful man but I don't want people to think I broke up his marriage. My reputation is important to me and I need to pro-tect it. What do you suggest? BROWN EYES
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Dear Readers, , whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.
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