Dear Ann Landers, y husband is a workaholic. He regularly works on Saturdays and often on Sundays as well. He averages 10 to 12 hours a day. Our three children are grown and doing well. We have purchased annuities for them and our four grandchildren. We give generous gifts of money for birthdays and Christmas and enjoy the fact that we can. We have two cars, a lovely home, no debts and approximately $1 million in assets. Sound good? Well, we also have no hobbies. We haven't had a vacation in years except for a couple of weekends when we visited our children and their families. ii ANN LANDERS I was a professional woman and worked both inside and outside the home. We are both in our 70s. When does the fun start?
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Dear Readers, , money in the bank and a wonderful fiance. You’d think I haven’t a worry in the world, but I’m a nervous wreck because I don’t know how to tell my fiance about my fetish. When I’m feeling really stressed or tired, I dress and act like a baby. I have adult-size diapers, rubber pants, baby pajamas, etc. I put these on, feed myself baby food from a jar and drink juice from a bottle. Then I fall asleep with a pacifier and a “blankie.” This soothes me because I imagine I’m being taken care of by a lov-ing father. I wake up in the morning refreshed and ready to take on my responsibilities. I’ve had this fetish since childhood. I was an only child, and my mother died when I was very young. My father raised me on his own. The B f s i ii f Ann L a n ii f ii s I 71 He worked long hours, so the only real chance we had to talk was at night. The first thing he did when he came home from work was dia-per me because I wet the bed. I stopped the bedwetting at age 12, and that was the end of a lot of attention from my father. I would occa-sionally wear a diaper under my pajamas, but after Dad caught me, he threw the diapers away and I no longer wore them. I am perfectly normal except for this kinkiness, but I know I can’t keep it from my fiance forever. I just can’t muster the courage to tell him, and I’m desperate for help. Please advise. -Twenty-three-year-old Baby in Ohio