Dear Ann Landers, My best friend is slitting her wrists. I know she doesn't want to end her life, but whenever she has a bad day at school or problems at home, she cuts herself. The last time she did this, I threatened to tell her parents, but she pleaded with me to keep quiet and promised she would never do it again.
We are both 14. She is my best friend, and I want her to be happy and healthy. What can I do to help her? -- Just Me in Philadelphia
Dear Philadelphia, You must insist that your friend get some counseling at once. She should see the school nurse, the family doctor or her favorite teacher. Self-mutilation is a serious problem and requires immediate attention. Don't delay, and don't let her talk you out of it.
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Rodrigo VillaseÃ±or's Comment
You have to be in contact with his parents and you talk about the subject as quickly as possible, so that this does not generate a shorter term car or a long term suicide, you must also contact teachers and friends who help to generate good vibes and that don't fall and keep doing more things like that
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