Section: children, mental-health, work
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anon's Comment
My nephew got benched from two basketball games because he missed one practice to spend an evening with his grandmother in the hospital (four hours from his town )before she died.
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Also, no games/practices over school breaks (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.). Some parents are worse than the coaches-trying to live their lives through their kids.
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Wow! I had a couple of sons involved in soccer, but it rarely, if ever, involved practice through dinner time! I agree that parents need to unite and meet with the sports coaches to set some boundaries. When practices and games prohibit kids from doing homework, or having other interests, priorities are out of order and something needs to change. Parents, UNITE!
DY's Comment
Dear, Sports Parents
I fully understand the current concerns about the education of parents who are raising young children. However, sports activities are important for children. Sports activities guide children through various experiences. It helps you learn the importance, perseverance, effort, and diligence of cooperation with other friends. Of course, as mentioned above, problems can arise if the energy to put into sports is much more excessive than the energy to put into education. However, you seem to approach children's activities and experiences with a very consumer mindset. It's not right to think of it as one reason to ban exercise on weekends if your kids don't run as a professional player or get a physical education scholarship. Looking at the paper "The Impact of Culture and Sports Activities on Children" by the Korea Sports Psychology Association, it is said that after doing sports activities, self-realization, immersion, autonomy, and relationship improved further. So what I want to say is that excessive sports activities seem negative in children's education, but it's still a good time. Now is the time when experience and human relationships are more important than education. If you are still worried, why don't you decide every other week or several times a month instead of eliminating school sports activities? Provide opportunities for children to explore their physical activities and dreams.
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