Dear Ann Landers,
hen I was fourteen, I made a big mistake with an older boy. Fortunately, I did not get preg-nant. I read in your column recently where you said a girl should not tell her fiance about such things. I hope you will not think I am dumb, but I would like to know if my fiance will know about my mistake even if I don't tell him. I hope you dig what I am talking about.-Sixteen But Not So Sweet