Dear Ann Landers, \"I think you should see a psychiatrist.\" The other is: \"You need to lose some weight.\" I have a file in my office with notes from fat former patients (and their fat relatives) cussing me out royally because I had the unmitigated gall to broach the subject of dropping some pounds. I no longer tell my patients they need to lose weight. They already know it. I only hope they occasionally look in the mirror.
Dear Doctor,
Sorry you have been a victim of the \"kill the messenger\" syndrome. I hope it will not discourage you and other physicians from telling your patients what they need to hear. To do otherwise would be abdicating your responsibility. Perhaps instead of lecturing, a better approach might be to give (or mail) the patient a diet and say, \"I hope this will help you have a healthier and happier life.\"
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