Dear Ann Landers,
am a man in my early 60s, divorced and re-tired. My sister is in her late 50s and widowed. We go to bed together twice a week. This has been going on since her husband died eight years ago. Actually, when we were teenagers we fooled around a lot but never had intercourse. This is not a love match, but it is sex, and good sex at that. We both enjoy these escapades, and they always produce a good . night's sleep. No one knows about this, and no one is getting hurt. Or do you think we are fooling ourselves? -No Name, No City, Please