Dear Ann Landers,
am a 20- year-old male with a very embarrass-ing problem. It is also depressing be-cause I can't talk to anyone about it. Please don't tell me to go to my doctor because it is not medical. And I hope you won't suggest a shrink. Even though I know the problem is all in my head, I don't think it warrants psychi-atric treatment. I have what is commonly referred to as "a bashful kidney." I simply cannot urinate unless I have complete privacy. Is there anything I can do about this? Can I cure myself? I'd appreciate some advice. B.K. IN MINNESOTA