Dear Ann Landers,
He feels cooking and cleaning is "woman's work." He still lives at home. He pressures you for sex. He tells you he "has never felt this way" about anyone else. He drinks before noon or after work on a regular basis. He spends money on himself but has trouble paying rent and utilities. He thinks birth control is your responsibility. He can't seem to hold a job. He frequently needs to borrow money from you. He shows disrespect for his family members or yours. He has never asked for your opinion or advice on anything. You have never heard him say, "I'm sorry." -Mom in Minnesota Dear Mom: Your observations are excellent. My female readers really rose to the occasion. Here's another superb response: