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Dear Ann Landers,
he woman I married two years ago was Ru- benesque, or should I say "heavy"? I've always been interested in large women; I'm one of the many males in this country known as "chubby chasers." "Isabelle" went on a strict diet last year at the instigation of her girl-friends, and she is now as skinny as a rail. I am no longer interested in her sexually. She knew when I married her that I liked obese women, so I've con-cluded that she is more interested in pleasing her girlfriends than me. Isabelle weighed 180 pounds when we married and she looked fabu-lous. Now she weighs about 105 and looks like she has tuberculosis. I gave her an ultimatum that unless she gains at least 50 pounds I am leaving. She is shocked and angry. Please put out the word that plump women are very desirable to some men, and if a woman is heavy when she gets married, she should stay that way. -Love Those Love Handles in Philadelphia

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