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Dear Ann Landers,
hanks for running the letter about the couple who enjoyed beating each other as a prelude to sex. Please add two more to the list. My wife and I have been whipping each other for several years and it is a highly emotional experience. Your Delaware reader noted that the centers of pain and pleasure are not far apart. Surely you know that pain and sex are often inseparable. We tried straight sex at the beginning and it left us exhausted, frustrated and un-fulfilled. Now we have great fun expressing our primitive feelings. We look for-ward to these lively encounters. Even though we end up with scratches, teeth marks and purple bruises, life is much more exciting. I'm sure you don't approve but I hope you'll print my letter so the cou- 968 THE ANN LANDERS ENCYCLOPEDIA pie in Delaware will know there are others. WE LOVE CUPID'S STING

DEAR STING,
There are MANY others and I've heard from dozens. As for "approval," what I think is not im-portant. I only give advice when asked. I'm not a judge or jury. If people enjoy scratching, biting and bruising one an-other (and call it love, yet), that's their business. But I'll tell you what I told the other couple. How nice that you two found each other. You belong together.



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, whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.

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