Dear Ann Landers,
ur daughter has been crying all day on account of you. Just last month we gave her a lovely wedding, and everyone said it was perfect down to the last detail. When Monica came down the aisle on her father's arm, her husband-to-be walked toward her singing "I Love You Truly." This added such a romantic touch to the ceremony that we received several letters about it from the guests. Now we see in your column that you feel it is in poor taste. Who appointed you judge and jury of the whole world?-Short Hills, New Jersey

Dear Know-It-All Ann Landers,
When my husband and I were married eighteen years ago, he took my arm from my father who had walked me down the aisle, we both faced the guests in the church, and he sang "Because." This was not planned; in fact it was a surprise to me, and I was thrilled. When our daughter is married, I hope her husband does the same thing. A spontaneous song from the groom is much more meaningful than a professional singer who gets paid.-Bur-lington, Vermont