Dear Ann Landers, y boss is separated but not divorced. He is intrigued with my knowledge of American literature and wants to get to know me better. We can't talk in the office. He says it would be damaging to my reputation if I were seen in public with him, since he is still legally married. Last week he suggested that we go to a motel and just talk. I agreed. We have gone to this motel twice. Nothing out-of-the-way has happened. I think it is wonderful that he is so considerate of my reputation, but I feel uncomfortable checking into a motel with a man. I am reluctant to tell him "no more motel" be-cause he may stop seeing me and I've grown fond of him. Any advice?-Lady Guinevere
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