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Dear Ann Landers,
"Show me a man, either single or married, sick, well, or dying, who would turn down sex, and I will happily eat the Sunday edition of The Washington Post." I would like to say, "Start nibblin',

dear heart.” I married a man who has the sex drive of a dead battery. My sisters drew the same kind. You suggest that these “disinterested” males go to a doctor and find out what is wrong. A fine suggestion, but what if they won’t go? Furthermore, I am 99 percent certain that the problem is not physical but mental. My “dead battery” is healthy as a horse. I can’t recall the last time he had a headache. What about this, Ann Landers? Am I right or wrong?-Baby It’s Cold In The House Dear Baby,
You are probably right. The vast majority of "disinterested" men have no organic problem. But it's always advisable to go to a physician and make sure. When no organic problem is present, a husband should accept the fact that he has an emotional problem. He owes it to his wife as well as to himself to see a therapist and get rid of the hornet in his helmet. And now a male point of view:



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