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Dear Ann Landers,
ason and I have been married ten years. We have always wanted a family, but for some reason I couldn't get pregnant. After going to a fertility clinic for two years, I finally got the good news. Our baby is due next month. Everything was grand until last week. Jason told me when my time comes to go to the hospital, I should call a taxi and leave the house quietly. He said, "I don't want to know a thing." At first I thought he was kidding, but now I believe he is serious. Last night he said again, "Don't call me until you can say whether it's a boy or a girl." Frankly I am hurt. It seems to me a husband should want to be with his wife at such a time. Is something wrong with him? Should I insist that he come with me or should I go alone?-Mrs. Count Down

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, whatever they needed I provided. What really hurt my son and I the most was the obituary - we were not mentioned at all. Our friends (mine and hers) were appalled. I was embarrassed and upset for not just me, but for my son-who loved her also. I never been so upset. Her x-husband put his wife and kids and their grandchildren in the obituary, who my girlfriend barely knew. They live an hour away from us. I know its silly to be mad over a little section of the newspaper, but it still hurts. Will time let this devastating loss of her and this article ever go away? I am so angry at this whole situation, its not like we can go and rewrite an obituary notice.

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